Terms of sale

About these terms

These terms apply when you buy from The Real One, join our community or get our free Date Bank. The Real One is operated by Montgomery Warr, a sole trader (ABN 53 174 608 177), Perth, Western Australia. “We”, “us” and “our” means The Real One and its operator. “You” means the person buying or signing up.

By placing an order or joining the community, you agree to these terms. Our Privacy Policy explains how we handle your information.

18+ only

Our products, email list and community are about adult relationships and are only for people aged 18 and over. By buying or signing up, you confirm you’re 18 or over. If we find out someone under 18 has bought from us, we’ll cancel the order, refund it in full and remove their access.

What you’re buying

We sell digital products: PDFs delivered by email, and access to an online community. There’s nothing physical, and nothing is posted to you.

Product	What’s in it
Core Playbook	The full seven-chapter playbook PDF.
Complete Bundle	The Core Playbook, plus the Situations Vault, Date Bank Plus, and your first month of community access.

Every paid product is a preorder: it’s being finished now and isn’t available yet. The community isn’t open yet either. See §05 and §09.

Prices and the founding window

All prices are in Australian dollars and are one-time payments. There’s no subscription. We’re not registered for GST, so no GST is charged.

Founding prices apply to orders placed from 17 Oct 2026 until 11:59pm AWST Sun 15 Nov 2026.

Product	Founding price	Standard price
Core Playbook	A$29	A$49
Complete Bundle	A$59	A$99

Founding price ends 11:59pm AWST Sun 15 Nov. From 16 Nov, Core is A$49 and the Complete Bundle is A$99.

The price you pay is the price shown at checkout when you place your order. If you bought at the founding price, you keep it. We won’t ask for more later.

Preorders, delivery and refunds

What that means in practice

• When you order, you’re paying now for a product we’ll email to you by its delivery date: the Core Playbook by Friday 13 November 2026, and the Situations Vault and Date Bank Plus by Friday 27 November 2026.
• We’ll send delivery updates to the email address you used at checkout. Check that it’s right, and check your other inbox folders if something seems late.
• If we miss the delivery date, you can have a full refund. If you’d rather wait, you can, and you can still ask for a refund at any point until it’s delivered.
• If you change your mind before delivery, for any reason, email us and you get a full refund.
• Refunds go back to the card or payment method you used, through Whop. We aim to process them within 5 business days. Your bank may take a few more days to show it.

After delivery

Once a PDF has been delivered, we don’t refund simply because you’ve changed your mind, because you’ve already got the product. That never limits your rights under the Australian Consumer Law. If what you receive is faulty, isn’t as described or doesn’t do what we said it would, see §06. If something’s wrong, email us. We’d rather fix it than argue about it.

Your consumer rights

Our products come with guarantees that cannot be excluded under the Australian Consumer Law. That includes digital products. Among other things, what you buy must be of acceptable quality, match its description, and be fit for any purpose we told you it was for. Services, like the community, must be provided with due care and skill.

If there’s a major failure, you’re entitled to a refund. If there’s a minor problem, we’ll fix it within a reasonable time, and if we don’t, you can ask for a refund. Nothing in these terms excludes, restricts or changes those rights.

For more on your rights, see the ACCC at accc.gov.au or Consumer Protection WA at consumerprotection.wa.gov.au.

Using what you buy

When you buy a product, you get a personal licence to read and use it yourself. You can keep it on your devices and print it for your own use.

Please don’t share, resell, upload or post the files or their contents, and don’t pass on your community login. It’s a small business and copying it hurts the people who paid. We own the content, and we may remove community access if a product is being shared around.

Education, not advice

Our products and community are educational. They’re built on relationship research and our own experience. They aren’t therapy, counselling, medical, psychological, legal or any other professional advice, and we’re not qualified professionals.

We can’t promise any result. Relationships involve another person, and she makes her own choices. What you do with the material is up to you.

If you’re going through a hard time, please talk to someone who can help. Lifeline 13 11 14, MensLine Australia 1300 78 99 78 and Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636 are free and open around the clock. In an emergency, call 000.

The community

When it starts

The community isn’t open yet. The Complete Bundle includes your first month of community access, hosted on Whop. Your month starts on the day we open the community and send you your invite, not the day you pay, so you don’t lose any of it while you wait.

After your first month

When your included month ends, your access ends unless you choose to stay. If we offer ongoing membership, we’ll tell you the price and what’s included before your month is up, and you’ll only be charged if you actively sign up for it. We won’t move you onto a paid plan automatically.

The rules

The community works because it’s a place where blokes can be honest. To keep it that way:

• Respect women. Talk about the women in your life as people, not targets or scores. No degrading, sexual or hateful talk about anyone.
• Respect each other. Disagree all you like, but no bullying, harassment, threats or pile-ons.
• Keep it private. Don’t share screenshots, names, photos or details of anyone, inside or outside the community, without their permission. That includes the women you’re talking about.
• Nothing illegal or explicit. No sexual content, no content involving anyone under 18, no illegal activity, and nothing that encourages self-harm or violence.
• No selling. No spam, advertising, affiliate links or recruiting for other programs.
• Look out for each other. If someone seems to be in real trouble, point them to the support lines in §08 and let us know.
• 18+ only. If you think someone is under 18, tell us.

If the rules are broken

We may remove posts, give a warning, suspend or remove anyone who breaks these rules. For serious breaches, such as threats, sharing someone’s private images or anything involving a minor, we’ll remove the person straight away and may report it to the authorities. If we remove you for breaking the rules, we won’t refund the community portion of your purchase, unless the Australian Consumer Law says otherwise. Your PDFs are yours to keep.

We’re not responsible for what other members post, but we do read reports. Email team@therealone.com.au if something isn’t right.

If we ever have to close the community before your included month is up, we’ll give you a fair partial refund for the time you missed.

The free Date Bank

The Date Bank is a free PDF of date ideas. You get it by giving us your email address and confirming you’re 18 or over. Getting it doesn’t sign you up for marketing emails. We only send those if you tick the separate box asking for them, and you can unsubscribe any time with the link in every email. Either way, you keep the Date Bank. It’s a different, shorter thing from Date Bank Plus, which comes in the Complete Bundle.

Whop and checkout

Checkout and the community run on Whop, and Whop processes your payment. You may need a Whop account. Whop’s own terms and privacy policy apply to your account and the payment. If anything in Whop’s terms conflicts with your preorder refund in §05 or your consumer rights in §06, we’ll still honour §05 and §06.

If something goes wrong at checkout, or you’re charged twice, email us and we’ll sort it out.

Our responsibility

We’ll do what we say we’ll do, with care. To the extent the law allows, we’re not responsible for decisions you make or outcomes in your relationships after using our material, or for indirect losses that we couldn’t reasonably have expected.

Where the law lets us limit our liability for a failure to meet a consumer guarantee, our liability is limited to supplying the product again or refunding what you paid. This doesn’t limit any right you have that the law says can’t be limited.

The rest

Changes. We may update these terms. The version that applies to your order is the one on this page when you placed it. Changes won’t take away a refund or delivery date you were promised.

Law. These terms are governed by the laws of Western Australia and the Commonwealth of Australia. If you’re overseas, you may also have rights under your local consumer laws.

Problems. If you’re unhappy, email us first. Most things get sorted in one reply. If not, you can contact Consumer Protection WA or the consumer agency where you live.

Contact. team@therealone.com.au. A real person replies, usually within two business days.

The Real One is operated by Montgomery Warr, a sole trader (ABN 53 174 608 177), Perth, Western Australia.